It seems to me like you can extend this usefully into three dimensions. Specifically by adding a “playfulness” axis. I find that being more playful makes it easier to hit that centerline, but being too playful puts me at risk of trivializing things to the point that I start to feel shame. I can also imagine for others being too playful can make them get self-centered and dismissive of others, basically on the “anger”/king side of that axis, which I guess could be fun for a while if you could sustain it but might really cause problems eventually…
Wow! You’re elucidating something I’ve only dimly seen before. Tremendous.
It seems to me like you can extend this usefully into three dimensions. Specifically by adding a “playfulness” axis. I find that being more playful makes it easier to hit that centerline, but being too playful puts me at risk of trivializing things to the point that I start to feel shame. I can also imagine for others being too playful can make them get self-centered and dismissive of others, basically on the “anger”/king side of that axis, which I guess could be fun for a while if you could sustain it but might really cause problems eventually…
Very curious - if there is another axis ‘playfulness’ then there has to be ‘negative playfulness’ - is there a word for it?
I'd probably call it "seriousness"--I've definitely worked with some people who live on that side of the spectrum!